diff --git a/CHANGELOG.md b/CHANGELOG.md
index bb5b8fa04..207c99d67 100644
--- a/CHANGELOG.md
+++ b/CHANGELOG.md
@@ -6,8 +6,17 @@ The format is based on [Keep a Changelog](https://keepachangelog.com/en/1.0.0/).
 
 ## Unreleased
 
+## Added
+- Custom options for users to accept/reject private messages
+  - options: everybody, nobody, people\_i\_follow
+- MRF to reject notes from accounts newer than a given age
+  - this will have the side-effect of rejecting legitimate messages if your
+    post gets boosted outside of your local bubble and people your instance
+    does not know about reply to it.
+
 ## Fixed
 - Support for `streams` public key URIs
+- Bookmarks are cleaned up on DB prune now
 
 ## 2023.04
 
diff --git a/config/config.exs b/config/config.exs
index 95c576385..ca397a8fd 100644
--- a/config/config.exs
+++ b/config/config.exs
@@ -418,6 +418,8 @@ config :pleroma, :mrf_object_age,
 
 config :pleroma, :mrf_follow_bot, follower_nickname: nil
 
+config :pleroma, :mrf_reject_newly_created_account_notes, age: 86_400
+
 config :pleroma, :rich_media,
   enabled: true,
   ignore_hosts: [],
diff --git a/lib/pleroma/user.ex b/lib/pleroma/user.ex
index 371dea85b..273bdf337 100644
--- a/lib/pleroma/user.ex
+++ b/lib/pleroma/user.ex
@@ -160,7 +160,8 @@ defmodule Pleroma.User do
     field(:status_ttl_days, :integer, default: nil)
 
     field(:accepts_direct_messages_from, Ecto.Enum,
-      values: [:everybody, :people_i_follow, :nobody]
+      values: [:everybody, :people_i_follow, :nobody],
+      default: :everybody
     )
 
     embeds_one(
diff --git a/lib/pleroma/web/activity_pub/mrf/direct_message_disabled_policy.ex b/lib/pleroma/web/activity_pub/mrf/direct_message_disabled_policy.ex
index 27a59c4f1..ec6fa70e2 100644
--- a/lib/pleroma/web/activity_pub/mrf/direct_message_disabled_policy.ex
+++ b/lib/pleroma/web/activity_pub/mrf/direct_message_disabled_policy.ex
@@ -12,7 +12,7 @@ defmodule Pleroma.Web.ActivityPub.MRF.DirectMessageDisabledPolicy do
   @impl true
   def filter(
         %{
-          "type" => "Note",
+          "type" => "Create",
           "actor" => actor
         } = activity
       ) do
@@ -24,9 +24,13 @@ defmodule Pleroma.Web.ActivityPub.MRF.DirectMessageDisabledPolicy do
           should_filter?(sender, recv)
         end)
 
-      {:ok, Map.put(activity, :to, new_to)}
+      {:ok,
+       activity
+       |> Map.put("to", new_to)
+       |> maybe_replace_object_to(new_to)}
     else
-      _ -> {:ok, activity}
+      _ ->
+        {:ok, activity}
     end
   end
 
@@ -43,4 +47,10 @@ defmodule Pleroma.Web.ActivityPub.MRF.DirectMessageDisabledPolicy do
       _ -> false
     end
   end
+
+  defp maybe_replace_object_to(%{"object" => %{"to" => _}} = activity, to) do
+    Kernel.put_in(activity, ["object", "to"], to)
+  end
+
+  defp maybe_replace_object_to(other, _), do: other
 end
diff --git a/lib/pleroma/web/activity_pub/mrf/reject_newly_created_account_note_policy.ex b/lib/pleroma/web/activity_pub/mrf/reject_newly_created_account_note_policy.ex
index 5481f38de..01a846831 100644
--- a/lib/pleroma/web/activity_pub/mrf/reject_newly_created_account_note_policy.ex
+++ b/lib/pleroma/web/activity_pub/mrf/reject_newly_created_account_note_policy.ex
@@ -16,9 +16,9 @@ defmodule Pleroma.Web.ActivityPub.MRF.RejectNewlyCreatedAccountNotesPolicy do
       when type in ["Note", "Create"] do
     min_age = Pleroma.Config.get([:mrf_reject_newly_created_account_notes, :age])
 
-    with %User{} = user <- Pleroma.User.get_cached_by_ap_id(actor),
+    with %User{local: false} = user <- Pleroma.User.get_cached_by_ap_id(actor),
          true <- Timex.diff(Timex.now(), user.inserted_at, :seconds) < min_age do
-      {:reject, "Account created too recently"}
+      {:reject, "[RejectNewlyCreatedAccountNotesPolicy] Account created too recently"}
     else
       _ -> {:ok, activity}
     end
diff --git a/lib/pleroma/web/api_spec/operations/account_operation.ex b/lib/pleroma/web/api_spec/operations/account_operation.ex
index 8a46ec32a..8a6851d52 100644
--- a/lib/pleroma/web/api_spec/operations/account_operation.ex
+++ b/lib/pleroma/web/api_spec/operations/account_operation.ex
@@ -717,8 +717,7 @@ defmodule Pleroma.Web.ApiSpec.AccountOperation do
             "people_i_follow"
           ],
           nullable: true,
-          description:
-            "Who to accept DMs from"
+          description: "Who to accept DMs from"
         }
       },
       example: %{
diff --git a/lib/pleroma/web/mastodon_api/controllers/account_controller.ex b/lib/pleroma/web/mastodon_api/controllers/account_controller.ex
index 16b3e36a8..057af762a 100644
--- a/lib/pleroma/web/mastodon_api/controllers/account_controller.ex
+++ b/lib/pleroma/web/mastodon_api/controllers/account_controller.ex
@@ -191,7 +191,7 @@ defmodule Pleroma.Web.MastodonAPI.AccountController do
         :show_role,
         :skip_thread_containment,
         :allow_following_move,
-        :also_known_as,
+        :also_known_as
       ]
       |> Enum.reduce(%{}, fn key, acc ->
         Maps.put_if_present(acc, key, params[key], &{:ok, Params.truthy_param?(&1)})
diff --git a/test/pleroma/web/activity_pub/mrf/direct_message_disabled_policy_test.exs b/test/pleroma/web/activity_pub/mrf/direct_message_disabled_policy_test.exs
index 50ed36a0b..072fe0576 100644
--- a/test/pleroma/web/activity_pub/mrf/direct_message_disabled_policy_test.exs
+++ b/test/pleroma/web/activity_pub/mrf/direct_message_disabled_policy_test.exs
@@ -8,7 +8,7 @@ defmodule Pleroma.Web.ActivityPub.MRF.DirectMessageDisabledPolicyTest do
   describe "strips recipients" do
     test "when the user denies the direct message" do
       sender = insert(:user)
-      recipient = insert(:user, %{accepts_direct_messages_from_not_followed: false})
+      recipient = insert(:user, %{accepts_direct_messages_from: :nobody})
 
       refute User.accepts_direct_messages?(recipient, sender)
 
@@ -16,15 +16,15 @@ defmodule Pleroma.Web.ActivityPub.MRF.DirectMessageDisabledPolicyTest do
         "actor" => sender.ap_id,
         "to" => [recipient.ap_id],
         "cc" => [],
-        "type" => "Note"
+        "type" => "Create"
       }
 
-      assert {:ok, %{to: []}} = DirectMessageDisabledPolicy.filter(message)
+      assert {:ok, %{"to" => []}} = DirectMessageDisabledPolicy.filter(message)
     end
 
     test "when the user does not deny the direct message" do
       sender = insert(:user)
-      recipient = insert(:user, %{accepts_direct_messages_from_not_followed: true})
+      recipient = insert(:user, %{accepts_direct_messages_from: :everybody})
 
       assert User.accepts_direct_messages?(recipient, sender)
 
@@ -32,11 +32,11 @@ defmodule Pleroma.Web.ActivityPub.MRF.DirectMessageDisabledPolicyTest do
         "actor" => sender.ap_id,
         "to" => [recipient.ap_id],
         "cc" => [],
-        "type" => "Note"
+        "type" => "Create"
       }
 
       assert {:ok, message} = DirectMessageDisabledPolicy.filter(message)
-      assert message.to == [recipient.ap_id]
+      assert message["to"] == [recipient.ap_id]
     end
   end
 end
diff --git a/test/pleroma/web/activity_pub/mrf/reject_newly_created_account_note_policy_test.exs b/test/pleroma/web/activity_pub/mrf/reject_newly_created_account_note_policy_test.exs
new file mode 100644
index 000000000..2fc65e6d6
--- /dev/null
+++ b/test/pleroma/web/activity_pub/mrf/reject_newly_created_account_note_policy_test.exs
@@ -0,0 +1,45 @@
+defmodule Pleroma.Web.ActivityPub.MRF.RejectNewlyCreatedAccountNotesPolicyTest do
+  use Pleroma.DataCase
+  import Pleroma.Factory
+
+  alias Pleroma.Web.ActivityPub.MRF.RejectNewlyCreatedAccountNotesPolicy
+
+  describe "reject notes from new accounts" do
+    test "rejects notes from accounts created more recently than `age`" do
+      clear_config([:mrf_reject_newly_created_account_notes, :age], 86_400)
+      sender = insert(:user, %{inserted_at: Timex.now(), local: false})
+
+      message = %{
+        "actor" => sender.ap_id,
+        "type" => "Create"
+      }
+
+      assert {:reject, _} = RejectNewlyCreatedAccountNotesPolicy.filter(message)
+    end
+
+    test "does not reject notes from accounts created longer ago" do
+      clear_config([:mrf_reject_newly_created_account_notes, :age], 86_400)
+      a_day_ago = Timex.shift(Timex.now(), days: -1)
+      sender = insert(:user, %{inserted_at: a_day_ago, local: false})
+
+      message = %{
+        "actor" => sender.ap_id,
+        "type" => "Create"
+      }
+
+      assert {:ok, _} = RejectNewlyCreatedAccountNotesPolicy.filter(message)
+    end
+
+    test "does not affect local users" do
+      clear_config([:mrf_reject_newly_created_account_notes, :age], 86_400)
+      sender = insert(:user, %{inserted_at: Timex.now(), local: true})
+
+      message = %{
+        "actor" => sender.ap_id,
+        "type" => "Create"
+      }
+
+      assert {:ok, _} = RejectNewlyCreatedAccountNotesPolicy.filter(message)
+    end
+  end
+end
diff --git a/test/pleroma/web/activity_pub/mrf_test.exs b/test/pleroma/web/activity_pub/mrf_test.exs
index 7359398fe..51af672cd 100644
--- a/test/pleroma/web/activity_pub/mrf_test.exs
+++ b/test/pleroma/web/activity_pub/mrf_test.exs
@@ -102,7 +102,13 @@ defmodule Pleroma.Web.ActivityPub.MRFTest do
       clear_config([:mrf, :policies], [Pleroma.Web.ActivityPub.MRF.NoOpPolicy])
 
       expected = %{
-        mrf_policies: ["NoOpPolicy", "HashtagPolicy", "InlineQuotePolicy", "NormalizeMarkup"],
+        mrf_policies: [
+          "NoOpPolicy",
+          "HashtagPolicy",
+          "InlineQuotePolicy",
+          "NormalizeMarkup",
+          "DirectMessageDisabledPolicy"
+        ],
         mrf_hashtag: %{
           federated_timeline_removal: [],
           reject: [],
@@ -118,7 +124,13 @@ defmodule Pleroma.Web.ActivityPub.MRFTest do
       clear_config([:mrf, :policies], [MRFModuleMock])
 
       expected = %{
-        mrf_policies: ["MRFModuleMock", "HashtagPolicy", "InlineQuotePolicy", "NormalizeMarkup"],
+        mrf_policies: [
+          "MRFModuleMock",
+          "HashtagPolicy",
+          "InlineQuotePolicy",
+          "NormalizeMarkup",
+          "DirectMessageDisabledPolicy"
+        ],
         mrf_module_mock: "some config data",
         mrf_hashtag: %{
           federated_timeline_removal: [],
diff --git a/test/pleroma/web/activity_pub/transmogrifier/note_handling_test.exs b/test/pleroma/web/activity_pub/transmogrifier/note_handling_test.exs
index 002042802..9faee7aa3 100644
--- a/test/pleroma/web/activity_pub/transmogrifier/note_handling_test.exs
+++ b/test/pleroma/web/activity_pub/transmogrifier/note_handling_test.exs
@@ -316,7 +316,7 @@ defmodule Pleroma.Web.ActivityPub.Transmogrifier.NoteHandlingTest do
     test "it correctly processes messages with non-array to field" do
       data =
         File.read!("test/fixtures/mastodon-post-activity.json")
-        |> Poison.decode!()
+        |> Jason.decode!()
         |> Map.put("to", "https://www.w3.org/ns/activitystreams#Public")
         |> put_in(["object", "to"], "https://www.w3.org/ns/activitystreams#Public")
 
@@ -333,7 +333,7 @@ defmodule Pleroma.Web.ActivityPub.Transmogrifier.NoteHandlingTest do
     test "it correctly processes messages with non-array cc field" do
       data =
         File.read!("test/fixtures/mastodon-post-activity.json")
-        |> Poison.decode!()
+        |> Jason.decode!()
         |> Map.put("cc", "http://mastodon.example.org/users/admin/followers")
         |> put_in(["object", "cc"], "http://mastodon.example.org/users/admin/followers")
 
@@ -346,7 +346,7 @@ defmodule Pleroma.Web.ActivityPub.Transmogrifier.NoteHandlingTest do
     test "it correctly processes messages with weirdness in address fields" do
       data =
         File.read!("test/fixtures/mastodon-post-activity.json")
-        |> Poison.decode!()
+        |> Jason.decode!()
         |> Map.put("cc", ["http://mastodon.example.org/users/admin/followers", ["¿"]])
         |> put_in(["object", "cc"], ["http://mastodon.example.org/users/admin/followers", ["¿"]])
 
@@ -412,7 +412,7 @@ defmodule Pleroma.Web.ActivityPub.Transmogrifier.NoteHandlingTest do
 
       activity =
         File.read!("test/fixtures/mastodon-post-activity.json")
-        |> Poison.decode!()
+        |> Jason.decode!()
         |> Kernel.put_in(["object", "replies"], replies)
 
       %{activity: activity}
diff --git a/test/pleroma/web/mastodon_api/update_credentials_test.exs b/test/pleroma/web/mastodon_api/update_credentials_test.exs
index 925ea25aa..70566f5d0 100644
--- a/test/pleroma/web/mastodon_api/update_credentials_test.exs
+++ b/test/pleroma/web/mastodon_api/update_credentials_test.exs
@@ -735,7 +735,9 @@ defmodule Pleroma.Web.MastodonAPI.UpdateCredentialsTest do
     test "changing to :everybody", %{conn: conn} do
       account =
         conn
-        |> patch("/api/v1/accounts/update_credentials", %{accepts_direct_messages_from: "everybody"})
+        |> patch("/api/v1/accounts/update_credentials", %{
+          accepts_direct_messages_from: "everybody"
+        })
         |> json_response_and_validate_schema(200)
 
       assert account["accepts_direct_messages_from"]
@@ -757,17 +759,23 @@ defmodule Pleroma.Web.MastodonAPI.UpdateCredentialsTest do
     test "changing to :people_i_follow", %{conn: conn} do
       account =
         conn
-        |> patch("/api/v1/accounts/update_credentials", %{accepts_direct_messages_from: "people_i_follow"})
+        |> patch("/api/v1/accounts/update_credentials", %{
+          accepts_direct_messages_from: "people_i_follow"
+        })
         |> json_response_and_validate_schema(200)
 
       assert account["accepts_direct_messages_from"]
       assert account["accepts_direct_messages_from"] == "people_i_follow"
-      assert Pleroma.User.get_by_ap_id(account["url"]).accepts_direct_messages_from == :people_i_follow
+
+      assert Pleroma.User.get_by_ap_id(account["url"]).accepts_direct_messages_from ==
+               :people_i_follow
     end
 
     test "changing to an unsupported value", %{conn: conn} do
       conn
-      |> patch("/api/v1/accounts/update_credentials", %{accepts_direct_messages_from: "unsupported"})
+      |> patch("/api/v1/accounts/update_credentials", %{
+        accepts_direct_messages_from: "unsupported"
+      })
       |> json_response(400)
     end
   end